Having partner must not merely continue to grow as people. Having its own identity, to cultivate those hobbies that we both like and to have your social network of friends and family. Every day, these aspects bring us that simple happiness which are supplements that are offered by our partner.
Personal space is essential in all kinds of relationships. Is where we develop as individuals, there where our hobbies, our friendships and our identity register. To reach a full it is necessary that there is a balance between the space of the couple and the individual, we explain it to you.
Personal space in the couple and their importance to our emotional health
There are many people who think, that real couples to do it all in common. That happiness lies in not spreading at any time and share a single space all the time. But this, in the long term will not be hygienic or healthy. The mental and emotional health is based also in those moments of individuality, of privacy, there where maintain that which characterizes us and that also makes us happy. See the following examples to better understand:1. the need to continue to grow as people
Without a doubt, there is nothing more satisfying than having a partner with which to share our life, to have a future project in common and live next to it. But having partner should not be limited at all continue to grow as people. And what does it mean to grow as a person? Having an identity in which feel good, further cultivating these hobbies that you both like: go out with your friends, take a walk, read, paint, study, train you intellectually and professionally, having your social network of friends and family... all these elements are part of our personal space, and also, is what every day, gives us that simple happiness that complements to that offered by us our partner.
2. the space of the couple and individual space should not be enemies
Both you and your partner is your hobbies and interests in common. And without a doubt it is perfect to be able to share things between the two. It is vital and successful. But we all know that also we enjoy our moments of solitude, there where thinking, where do our things, where to be with ourselves. And that, is not betraying the person who love. It is to be myself, wanting me to myself but loving to you also.
3 trusting each other is also a sign of love
This is sometimes a complex aspect. There are many people who do not see with good eyes having your partner, your friends and come out with them. To spend an afternoon or a night out with co-workers. Even want to ascend in his work. Or who, one day, decides to make a trip of weekend without him or her. It is something that happens very often. Jealousy is the main enemies of personal space. Being able to get to ban, to veto or even blackmail.
And we must keep that in mind. At the moment we stop doing what identifies us, that which part of our personal space, we will let ourselves be. If you forbid you have friends or practice your hobbies, will come a day when you feel empty, frustrated and with very low self-esteem . Not let your own freedom guarded in the pocket of your partner. The trust is a sign of love. "I beg you because I trust you, I leave you to grow as a person because in this way we will also grow as a couple."
4. the personal space as a link of complicity in the couple
Permit each of the two sketch of your personal space, is undoubtedly a sign of love, trust and complicity. Allow your partner still maintain their friendships, leaving that Sunday to go biking or jogging if you like, encourage him to that climb in their employment, are essential to support and love signs. Want our partners to be happy and to remain themselves, enriching Moreover the relationship. If we are happy people, we will be happy as a couple. But if we are frustrated because we do not do what we want, that the other person feel jealousy or mistrust, only have unhappiness to our relationship.
It is a very simple equation that we cannot forget. I know yourself, keep your identity, your relationships, and your aspirations. If you're satisfied with what you are and what you do image links with your partner. Your personal space is essential to be happy and bring harmony to the relationship. Because everyone deserves to be happy.
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