7 signs that reveal the infidelity of your partner

We put in a balance the good and the bad that it brings us our partner if, come the case, we must assess what compensates for more

Sometimes have suspicions that our partner is betraying us and playing confident. May we have only small tracks which give us to think, that your partner deny it all or that, simply, we feel that something is not going well and that we fret.
However, it is difficult to have an absolute certainty if we are not in a situation obviously committed or not to confess it to us.
Then will try to shed light on this matter with some strokes that can open your eyes about what is happening. However, it is important to note that none of what explained in this article can give us a definite answer.
Why have to be especially cautious and not to draw hasty conclusions about the possible or impossible infidelity of your partner.

1. a sudden obsession with mobile or social networks

There are two important factors that we have to evaluate first of all. First, your partner may be a problem of addiction to mobile or social networks and we have to help you overcome it.
Why should analyze whether the need for the constant connection has been sudden or has started gradually.
The fact that behind excessive use guardian can hide infidelity relationship with too much suspicion and occultism. Suffice it to observe if you carry your phone up at all times, if it controls and constantly check your messages and your calls, if you delete records or use your phone at odd hours.
However, it should be noted that for anything in the world we should check your mobile or social networks to our partner but we are almost sure of his infidelity, because that would mean a total and absolute breach of their privacy and our confidence.

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2 there is a plot of his life which does not let you participate

Suddenly, your partner has a new and amazing hobby that before did not have and you can not understand how has come up to there and why they don't want to share with you absolutely nothing that has to do with the theme.
In this case, should be cautious and understand that his misgivings may be a way to claim a personal and intimate space.
For this reason, it is necessary to examine carefully which can lead you to it and never take it as an unmistakable sign of his infidelity. It is worth recalling again that there is nothing that guarantees us to 100 percent that they are betraying us.

3. each day you have new meetings or obligations

Things like this are what first make us smell that something goes wrong. If your partner starts to hold meetings outside of their work or academic schedule too often it is normal that you suspect.
If each of these occasions, details you to imply what he has done or places that has gone, is likely that you are not talking about naturally. As the saying: the excuse that occurs without a prior petition expresses guilt.
Anyway, we're back to remember that not always do so or must take this as a confirmation that we are looking for.

4 we find among their clothes or in their body marks kisses, hairs, foreign objects, etc.

Physical tests are always greater evidence about an infidelity or any other question. Observe and check the existence of these indications you can provide irrefutable proof that will help us to confront the situation with our partner.

5 suddenly, our couple is more sure of herself

The new relationships often provide a breath of fresh air to our self-esteem and our self-confidence. For this reason, if your partner has given you of soon "a buzz" and you do not recognize it in their acts, it can be a reason for suspicion.
Anyway, this does not have to be bad in itself. However, when this indication joins many others that we have been discussing, it may be indicating that there is a third person.

6 take care of their appearance suddenly

This point is United with the former. Can your partner starts to take care of yourself or fix much, suddenly, when before did not. This may be due to that you fancy, something makes you have that need, that wants to be handsome or beautiful to you or that is getting the horns.
Therefore, although it may be sign of infidelity, we again do not draw hasty conclusions of this indication in particular.

7 renew their care towards you

It can be that after a few years of life and sexual routine, your partner be surprised with new interests and with a special dedication to your person. It is possible that this obeys the desire for your partner to renew the relationship or that it has learned new things out, for example.

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What's behind the infidelity?

As we have been commenting, while these and other behaviors may be indicative that there is another person in the life of our partner, also may none of them attributed to a hoax.
Why return to repeat that we must be especially cautious and not to unnecessarily damage the image that we have of him or her.

First, always have that look if anything goes wrong in the relationship or not.
Given that infidelity is one of the issues it raises more interest, numerous studies have compiled information upon the factors that are associated with the deception in the pair.
I have wanted to highlight some of them so that, come the case, you may have into account to assess whether break with everything or solve the situation:

• The lack of love. It is common that, over time, let us love our partner despite love her madly. This may favour the idea of looking for another person and be true to one's self, despite be deceiving the other.
• The routine and boredom. Eventually, custom ceases to entertain us and we have the need to go in search of new stimuli that ilusionen us. In addition, the curiosity and concern sexual and affective can favour an infidelity.
• The need for seduction. There are people who are locked up in their vanity and their narcissism and to measure its appeal and its value according to his conquests.
• False beliefs or selfish belief seeking to justify infidelity: "only by this time", "I've never been with anyone more, and I have to try," "does not have why to find out", "it's just sex," "won't miss", etc.
• A system of values that does not punish the infidelity.
• Communication problems are hidden and are not resolved may generate resentment that accumulate within the relationship.
• The feeling of loneliness within the relationship by an emotional detachment and a lack of affection.
• Lack of sexual satisfaction. This tends to favour the idea of seeking another more compatible partner dress.
• Unrealistic expectations and idealization of the couple and the other relationship can produce great disappointments that distance to each other.

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