5 things you must not let your relationship

It's okay to give it all provided the other person responds to us. Never leave aside to families and friends by your partner. Ask yourself if that person that you have on the side gives you harmony and tranquility and is with what you want to age.

There is nothing more intense and rewarding than being in love, have a couple that we want and who want to. But we must be careful and not fall into the error to give absolutely everything to that person... For this reason, you explain what dimensions must protect above all.

Dimensions that protect in your relationship

1. not so des "everything" without receiving anything in return "never"

It is a mistake that we tend to fall. Loving someone is to open all our emotions without finding any limits, giving everything for passion and sincere altruism. And that's good, no doubt. But as long as the other person we respond and show us that all effort is worthwhile, that every gesture is reinforced by a sincere love where there is no selfishness. If it is everything without receiving more than demands or accusations, come a time when we feel frustrated and very empty. This feeling is very destructive and we must take it into account. Love, offers, gives... but remember that you also deserve to receive the same.

2 that do not destroy your self-esteem or your values

As a couple it is common to have different tastes, hobbies and even values. But as long as respect and recognition all work well. You can afford your partner values for example, much spontaneity, fun, leaving much party... but also demand that this time also share it with you and that in turn, which values you from time to time ask you more quiet and intimate home days. Must be a balance. But if someone criticizes us because we are not "so funny" or as lovers the festivities, then we will feel bad and begin to doubt ourselves. I am a boring person of truth? am I perhaps a person with which it can not be happy? Such questions can do much damage to your self-esteem. Our partners must respect us and value us. It is essential. If there is no respect will there be happiness.

3 that they do not invade or destroy your personal space

We all have our hobbies, our friends, our passions... things that we can not give. Never leave aside to families and friends by your partner. Do not give up everything you like by your partner, because otherwise it will not be you nothing and you will lose your identity. Personal space are those intimate spaces where our personality, our social life and our passions. So do not go overlooked.

4 it does not erase your hopes and your dreams

Occasionally, maintain affective with toxic pairs. People who cut us wings and they tell us, day after day, that we are not capable of such or such thing. That we are not smart to make certain activity, that job we are eager to get not get it because we do not like. Personalities who day after day are cutting us wings and our aspirations, our personality making a cartoon where only is spirit or energy. Do not allow it.

5. do not allow that to become an unhappy person

It is the most important thing. When you get up every morning to you ask yourself if you're happy. Ask yourself if the person you have on the side is that with which you want to grow old, that accompany your maturity and that there will be live next to your hand in harmony and tranquility. If it gives you security, maturity, and illusion, do not hesitate, this relationship is worth it and you must fight for it. Worse if you feel empty and perceive that the couple does not give you smiles but tears, and that you live your days with extreme sadness, will have to react. Deserve to be happy. It is the vital right of every person.

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