Personal growth. In this vital dimension to man our life project, focuses our dreams, that we want to achieve or aspire to be. People grow day to day based on successes, but also of failures, and all have to obtain an apprenticeship.
It is important to have in mind these phrases to find you better. To live with balance and enhance our personal growth. Think about them and put them into practice.
1 I won't allow to cut me the wings
What are your values? What dreams are that you have always defined? Occasionally, and without that we realize she says, arrives one day in which violated everything that in what you believe. Either by the influence of other persons or because you have entered a pace of life that you have no time for anything, you realize that soon you recognize yourself.What is going on?
- Others are that mark what you should do in every moment, what is expected of you. There are times in which our partners or even our relatives are those who "cut us wings" of our personal growth. Do not allow it.
- At other times, you fall into a rhythm of life full of pressure where you hardly have time to yourself. All are obligations, pressures, stress... You fall into a circle that you don't know how to get out. How grow personally in the midst of these pressures? Keep that in mind.
2. the errors are required to grow personally
What would be of us if we don't make mistakes? Possibly would be robots, machines without emotions that lack of learning opportunities and that, simply respond according to the schedule they have received.
You're not a machine nor are perfect, and that's good. Should give us the chance of mistakes, initiate projects that do not succeed, of living relationships that do not end well... Because this will teach you many things to improve and grow personally, to have second chances where, this time, to succeed.
You do not sink to a failure: take it, understand it, and then let go of suffering to stay with learning.
3 I'm going to live with harmony
It can be that this phrase seems something indefinite. What we mean by "living in harmony"? Takes note of every aspect, surely you understand it immediately:
- People must act according to our beliefs, values and feelings. If someone forces you to do something you don't want, it will go against the principle of living with harmony.
- Harmonize your body with your emotions. If you feel rage, he screams. If you're feeling hurt, crying. I.e., there are people who hide their emotions by pretending that you nothing them, that all is well. All this, in the long term, causes serious emotional and health problems. It always acts with harmony according to your feelings.
4 I'm going to listen to me every day
Sure that you are accustomed to hear every day the problems of others. People who always speak in first person, without asking you how you are today, or which concerns you have in mind. Set a limit and you not always centres on the other.
You're the star of your life and should also know to listen to you. And care, it is not only meet your body, seek an analgesic for this headache, or take a shower to relieve fatigue. You should know to listen to your thoughts and your needs, that inner voice which, sometimes, forget to attend.
5 I'm going to live each day with enthusiasm
Every day is unique and special. Why lose it with concerns or fears? Do not allow it. Don't let others put walls to your happiness or to remove your energy with your selfishness or her negativism, because that is not quality of life.
We are all aware that, in this life, we have obligations and responsibilities, but they should be part of a set with which you feel happy. "I'm going to work because I am done with my profession, because it allows me to have independence and take care of my family." "I follow with my partner because we are happy, because life is fuller with the illusion that brings me."
Think of everything you have today and excite you for every thing, per project, per step you give every day. Now, if your days are already the same illusion, find out what happens and put solution to the extent that is possible. Because a life without illusions makes no sense and is, without doubt, the worst enemy for our personal growth.
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