Nobody is prepared to lose a loved one, so our reactions can be unpredictable. Express your feelings freely and cries if necessary
In life it goes through many moments of doubt, despair, happiness, sadness, and unfortunately we are not prepared to cope with a loss unless it causes pain, for this it is necessary that in life we accept to let go of situations, and especially those people that we consider important to our lives, but for some reason they move away from us.
- Denial, where the person does not believe or accept what is happening.
- Anger, where the person who has suffered the loss felt anger with everything related to the individual who has died, the time and the situation.
- Negotiation, It is where it starts to understand why things happened and tries to find a solution.
- Sad stage where it is already clear that the loss is irreparable, this part is one of the most critical of the duel.
- Depression, which may be the most delayed and difficult to overcome
- Acceptance, where depression is bowing and begins to assimilate that life continues, despite not having that person.
Express your feelings
Don't worry if one day you feel anger, to the other acceptance, and the next you desire to cry. A loss of a loved one is not something to which we are all accustomed to, so express your feelings freely, regardless, beware these expressions of pain only going to cause you harm psychological and body, since the mind has much to do with the health of the body.Make a list of the good things you have in life
Due to the depression in which you can find it is common to feel that life makes no sense, or that they always pass you bad things, but I don't think that everything is so bad, writes every day those important things that have happened, your partner, work, your sons, your brothers, your parents, your friends... in the end, apply that saying of seeing the glass half-full or half-empty , you will notice that while you be not with that person that you loved both accounts with other things that can make you happy to your around.
Attempts not to get away from your family and friends, they are to whom you provide the love that you need, has someone at all times to talk about the person who died, about your feelings or a psychologist is also seeking, they understand very well what you are going through and can help you cope with the time.
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