If we see that we have invested our time and effort on someone who hasn't done anything to deserve us, we need to realise that it is better to stay away
Life are cycles, stages which start and doors that close to move forward. Now, how can we find that strength and the fortitude to be able to finish certain things?
Although it hurts, sometimes it's best to know to say goodbye to the love that already not enriches us, or terminate this friendship that already is based more on self-interest than altruism.
Life is a continuous flow where only the bravest manage to walk with the happiness they deserve. With fullness and satisfaction, although sometimes should make some that another sacrifice for our sake.
Join us in this reflection today. Let's talk about the two faces of the 'know say goodbye'.
It is time to take stock
There are people who are not very accustomed to thinking of themselves, stop and ask yourself this question everyone should ask at the start of the day: How do I find today?
- It is not necessary for us to enjoy each day of absolute happiness . It is not from that, the real life game is to find that daily tranquillity with which feel good about ourselves. With what we are. With what we have.
- Get used to talking to yourself. No centres throughout your universe in others. You are also important and need to know how you are, what you feel, what hurts and what you need.
- Take stock is as healthy as a useful exercise. To do this, get a display. On one side is all what you start a daily smile, on the other side, what worries you, it hurts you.
- What weighs more? the joys or sorrows? Think about it.
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Saying goodbye is not a farewell, it is a home
You did a balance and you've realized that there are things that you should let go. We are not just talking about people. Sometimes, there to another dimension that also left in our lives:
- Let go of negative thoughts. We must get rid of the constant concern and learn to be more optimistic.
- Say goodbye to focus our life only in others. Should maintain balance and open the doors to our moments of leisure, to continue training us if so want it, to improve in the workplace...
- There are that say goodbye to loads emotional. are you worried about what think you? Drop that weight, it means nothing. You worry about criticism? Free in your actions, in your desire to know and give wings to your personal growth.
How to say goodbye we still love
Sometimes we live those hard moments that despite continue to love certain people, we are aware to cause us more pain than growth. More tears than happiness.How to face this situation?
- If you love someone, you first have to do my best to solve the problem. Well, if you realize that you have invested time, hopes and efforts on someone who has done little or nothing to deserve you, it is now time to say goodbye.
- To say goodbye, you must be aware that you already do not want suffering. That do not deserve to suffer. You are a brave person who will be able to continue with his life full, so you should explain the situation as you feel it.
- Di truth, Open your heart, and argues the need for that goodbye. Now know, because sometimes we fall into the trap of "try again", and this can sometimes lead to more months of suffering .
- Bye bye should be given with sincerity, emotional openness and determination. Someone might say that "without anaesthesia", because the pain will be intense. However, it is a necessity. Because ten clear also that a needed farewell is, in reality, a new beginning in your life. Another chance to be happy.
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Returns the link to yourself after the goodbye
When we say goodbye, a part of ourselves is also clear from that person. It's like cutting an umbilical cord which we fed of emotions, projects, dreams and illusions.
After this breakdown, it is vital that we return to that link with ourselves, with our self-esteem, our being to be able to move forward in happiness and fulfillment.
Takes note of some very important tips:
- Remember that this goodbye was necessary. Is a stage finish and now not be lifted, but "REBORN", "meet" again we but in a more powerful way.
Because we have been courageous, because we have a wise lesson learned and know what we want: search our happiness.
- Saying goodbye is to Open a new door , and do not hesitate, can be everything you want to.
- Don't keep grudges to anyone about what happened. If the farewell is accompanied by anger or resentment, we can not move forward. Hate makes us prisoners, so there is no better freedom than that which moves without weights by whom he has managed to forgive.
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