If love doesn't fit, it isn't your size

Don't be yourself to fit in a relationship. Although loneliness is a State that can be scary to us, it is always healthier than a toxic relationship

Sometimes we were not right with that size. There are times that you assume too many responsibilities in your day to day, like many things to reach, and you realize that your brain, far from being realistic, "uses a very large size".
However, as we mature, we are realizing what we can do and what not, we learn what deserves our attention and what is best to ignore.
Little by little we are adjusting more realistically aspirations with reality. Now, when we talk about themes of love and emotional, we must recognize that it is always very difficult to find the tighter, who better to feel us and us favours.
There are loves that drown and others that favor us, that make us feel happy and accomplished. So tell us... and you? You successful with the size of your love?

The loves that removed us the air

We can not deny it. All we like those relationships that leave us breathless and they make us feel alive, filled by a thousand feelings and illusions.
We must be very aware that this emotional accumulation where mixing fascination, the desire and the necessity for always being next to our partner is very common in the early stages of infatuation.
After those first few months or the first two years that usually takes the stage of romantic love, we begin to live that love mature and everyday life where the links should be replaced.
At this stage, it should be these dimensions:

• Passion has lost some of its intensity and, while the desire is still alive, is valued above all the complicity of the couple. There is a kind of camaraderie where everything is agreed upon, dialogues, where there is harmony.

• Initiates a phase which will establish clear objectives . Commitment is already translated into the idea of forming a family, perhaps find a new residence, find economic stability to help the couple make plans for the future.

• The day-by-day lives with harmony, sense of humor and mutual respect. Dialogue and engagement are two essential pillars.

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How are that removed us the air and that we "squeeze" the loves?

• Love tightening and that takes away the air is the love that makes us damage. And, in spite of being invisible and not leave wounds that others can see, emotional pain is the most destructive to personal level. The most vetoes our personal growth as a woman.

• Love you press is that selfish love is given priority to oneself and manipulates us.

They are people who are vicitimizan, that make us feel guilty when we ask 'air', when we asked to have our personal spaces or enjoy our hobbies or social relationships.

• Nor can we ignore that, occasionally, blame focuses not only on the other side of the binomial, but that also we have, on occasions, a part of responsibility.

There are people who built his life around the loved one, as if it were a small satellite around a planet.

• Leaving aside the family, friends... We started to give up essential things that define us, to invest them in the person we love. We build to the couple that toxic attachment that holds us to take our encouragement and our own essence.

We never prioritize other people above our own needs because, over time, our self-esteem will be like a puppet. Never reach this end!

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If that love you, it's not your size... let it go

If you tighten the love, is not at all change the size, or "slimming". Never change your way of being, Act, feel and live to fit the personality of your partner and fit in your pattern.

• You have your own size, your way of seeing the world and understand it, there where you have integrated your values as a woman and as a person who has learned from his mistakes and his triumphs.

• If the person who shares life with you is vetoing much of your way of being and cuts in addition Wings for your personal growth, you should seriously think about your situation.

• There is who is afraid to leave her partner knowing that it brings more tears than happiness, by simple fear to be alone, to have someone on their side. Make no mistake: sometimes the loneliness is healthier than a bad company.

Loneliness heals, frees and helps us to get in touch with ourselves.

• Don't be afraid to leave that dress that you press and take away the air. It is normal to not hit sometimes "with that emotional carvings". It is difficult to find the right person that fits with our needs, it fits with our projects, which encorsete our fears and our life with sincere joy orle.

However, this search is something that is always worth.

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