36 questions to fall in love in an hour

Occasionally, 36 questions are not enough to fall in love. Sometimes, it is enough with a look and others make us takes years to realize our feelings

We all know that one of the factors key to fall in love and fall in love with , no doubt, establish a mutual space of intimacy.
Get this link of complicity and trust with another person offers us suddenly an emotion intense, magical and special which can lead to very well that appears to love.
We already know that, sometimes, the attraction between two people to escape the logic and reason.
However, there are many studies that have been made to find out how this chemistry, these behaviors and human instincts which make us to gather in pairs, developing this strong feeling that can last for months and, why not, a lifetime.
It was in 1996 when the social psychologist Arthur Aron a curious experiment carried out laboratory in the Department of interpersonal relationships at the University of Stony Brook, New York (United States).
His goal was to find out how worked these variables that could establish a union between two strangers, and how through a series of questions, could be create among them a strong bond of intimacy.
Initially, the work of Aron did not seek it at all get two people fall in love. Its work was purely academic and carried out as we say in an experimental context and laboratory.
Now, in January of this year, "New York Times" magazine published again this hand of an academic study, Mandy Len Catron's.
Your intention? According to her, through the 36 questions to teacher Aron established to achieve that link of intimacy between two people, it was possible to fall in love and fall in love with.
She had done it and he gave evidence that was as well. We are confident that this issue is going to concern, discover with us how this battery of questions.

The 36 questions about personal and emotional intimacy of Arthur Aron

We will begin by clarifying a number of points. The questions you are going to read delve into very intimate and personal issues. In fact, it is likely that established couples have not reached never consider one another throughout this series of issues.
The 36 questions are arranged in three blocks.
This test with a stranger should go calmly and perform, first of all, the series initial, so we could see how we noticed.
If you feel discomfort, it is better to leave it, but If notes that creates certain complicity and the atmosphere is comfortable enough to facilitating dialogue with ease, later. The experience worthwhile.
It must be said, also, should already have couple, is very interesting at the same time to carry out this test. While we can take more than one hour, is something that is worthwhile.
Far from being a simple game, each question "squints, deepens and turns on". They will come to light the fears and personal needs, the defects and virtues, those voices occasionally very quiet which we showed not always so easily to whom we want to.
We encourage you to make these 36 questions with who you want, Although one does not look precisely fall in love and fall in love.
With them, will be able to undress us and Strip who have in front to see him as an equal, to reflect, to know and to understand.
Takes note of how you should do it:

• Choose a quiet place.
• Say aloud, turn-based questions. Each Member of the couple must give your response to each question formulated.
• Both members of the couple must maintain eye contact at all times.
• There are three series of questions. Establish a break at the end of each one, and it will decide whether to continue or not with the following.

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Do we start?

First series of questions

• If you could choose anyone in the world, who you would prefer to have guest for dinner?
• Would you like to be famous? In what sense?
• Before making a call, rehearse what you're going to tell? why?
• How is it a "perfect" day for you?
• When was the last time that you sing to yourself? And to someone else?
• If you were able to live up to 90 years... would you prefer? Have the mind or the body of a person of 30?
• Do you have any hunch secret of how you think you will die?
• Name three things that you would like to have in common with your partner.
• Why thing of your life feeling more grateful?
• If you could change anything in the way in which you grew up, what would they be?
• Take four minutes and tells the story of your life.
• If you could wake up tomorrow having obtained any quality or ability, what would?

Second series of questions

• If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what you want to know?
• Is there something you've wanted to do for a long time? Why not what you've done?
• What is the largest of a lifetime achievement?
• What they value most in a friendship?
• What is your most treasured memory?
• What is your worst memory?
• If you knew that you will die suddenly within one year, would you change anything in the way in which you live? Why?
• What does friendship for you?
• Which roles play love and sorrow in your life?
• It explains 5 things you are looking for in a partner.
• Do you have a good relationship with your family? Do you feel that your childhood was happier than that of the majority of people?
• Do you feel about the relationship you have with your mother?

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THIRD SERIES OF QUESTIONS

• Get three true statements like "us". For example: "we are now asking us questions, we are now quiet...".
• Complete this sentence: "I would like to have someone with whom to share...".
• If you were to become a close friend of your partner, please share what it is important that he or she knew.
• Tell the person that you have before you like about him or her.
• Talk about some embarrassing moment of your life.
• When was the last time you cried in front of another person? And you alone?
• Tell the person you have front what you like friends you have now.
• What, if anything, there is is too serious to joke with it?
• If you were to die tonight without the opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why not is what you've said yet?
• Tu House, with everything you have, burns down. After having saved the people you want and your pets, have time to make a last entry, rescue some object and saved. what would they be? why?
• Of all persons in your family, the death who would hit you more? Why?
• Sharing a personal problem and seek advice from the person who you have, to know how you would handle the situation he or she.

In conclusion, this series of works about human relationships and emotions is always interesting. Now, must never forget that, sometimes, 36 questions are not enough to fall in love or fall in.
Because love is not always attends reasons or explanations. Sometimes just a look or, on the contrary, it takes several years to give account to love someone. Is without a doubt, an adventure that is always well worth experiencing.

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